Should I message him? Help!!


Should I message him? Help!!

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    December 18, 2015 at 6:30 pm #90302
    Should I message him? Help!!

    So basically Iv’e started chatting to a guy at work who’s in a different department to me, we have just caught each other around work or on our break, he’s a really sweet guy and we get on well…the thing is as we work in different bits its always by chance that we can chat! I’ve got him on Facebook, should I start chatting to him on there or just leave it? and if I do what’s a good way to start the conversation without looking too forward? so stuck on what to do!

    December 18, 2015 at 7:25 pm #90310

    I would possibly think of something to do with work? Simple question then see how they reply back to you, make it friendly but not to formal, or if they mentioned they were going somewhere or doing something ask how it went, that’s how I would start it 🙂

    December 21, 2015 at 8:54 am #90308

    Hi – if you’re on FB together anyway, then yes, you might as well message him. Send him a really casual message. If you don’t work on the weekend maybe say something like, “Hey, how’s it going? Excited for the sunshine this weekend!” If he’s interested he’ll hopefully ask you out. If he replies without asking a question back at you then he’s probably not interested and you don’t have to feel embarrassed about being rejected.

    December 21, 2015 at 5:12 pm #90389

    Of course you should message him. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. There’s not much risk here, sure if he doesn’t reply then that’s just how it is unfortunately, but if he does you win! If you don’t message him you guys could be in this little ‘deadlock’ for quite some time. As far as subject goes, i agree with Aries’ post, its quite a smart topic.

    December 22, 2015 at 12:56 pm #90423

    Thanks for the advice guys! I messaged him last night and he was very chatty, I went to bed though so he said he’d speak to me today at work as we were both in all day! It was so busy though we didn’t really get a chance 🙁 do I carry on the Facebook convo this evening or wait for him to talk this time? considering he’s quite a shy guy…

    December 23, 2015 at 11:53 am #90454

    Yes! you should really go for it! but take your time to confess. don’t ended up like me. Good luck and YOU GO GIRL!