Should I move on or reach out to him?


Should I move on or reach out to him?

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    September 15, 2017 at 11:44 am #149162
    Should I move on or reach out to him?

    GUYS………should I reach out????
    So to give you a little background, I have been talking to this guy on Tinder for roughly a month now. We would talk everyday and our conversations were good. We’ve had talks about how neither one of us are really seeing anyone and haven’t dated much recently. We finally met last week and he ended up staying the night and we slept together (mistake I know)!!!!!! Neither one of us were planning on that to happen, but it did. It was good and we talked afterwards and things seemed light and fun. The next day, he texted me in the evening just basically saying “hey what’s up??” and we talked back and forth a little, but I noticed his texts were shorter than usual. He continues to respond back and forth to me, but should I be taking the hint he isn’t interested? I have since stopped responding….but I’m not sure if I should reach out to see what’s going on. If he’s not interested, why would he have even reached out?

    September 15, 2017 at 9:42 pm #149266

    Just give him allitle bit of time
    He will come around OK

    September 16, 2017 at 12:50 am #149276

    Any guy that truly likes you and wants to get to know you will be obvious.. that’s the way normal men are wired. If it’s cryptic which in this case sounds not waste your time. Guys with issues enjoy a chase on their terms and enjoy attention but will not want anything serious.. and these are the guys that send cryptic short messages. Basing this off my life experience.. do not waste your time unless you yourself do not want anything serious. He will contact you randomly (probably for sex or attention) but the best thing you can do is not encourage him to behave like that.. so I wouldn’t reply.

    September 16, 2017 at 8:21 pm #149280

    The fact he is still messaging you is a good sign. Typically texting doesn’t stay at the level it does when you first meet someone as it’s not maintainable. Just keep chatting with him and see where it goes but in the meantime don’t put all of your eggs in that basket.

    September 17, 2017 at 5:41 pm #149291

    Let him come to you. It seems like he just wanted sex.

    September 25, 2017 at 7:01 am #150119

    I would just give it time. Don’t be the one to text first. I’ve been there – when you talk to someone for awhile then feelings overwhelm and it seems okay in the moment that you sleep together the first time you meet. However, guys still like a chase, they want to earn it. Honestly it really hasn’t ever worked in my favor – but if you really like him I would continue to live life, be confident, don’t be needy, and if it’s meant to be he will ultimately come around. And if he does, go on a date and don’t have sex, get to know each other more face to face and see if there is a real connection there.

    September 26, 2017 at 4:06 am #150339

    as long as the conversation keeps going its a good sign. or he was nervous and went to far and regretted it and now is backing off to cool things off to make things good. then start again

    September 27, 2017 at 9:06 pm #150672

    I think you should definitely take the chance , if you don’t you might regret it !!