Should I persist?


Should I persist?

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    February 27, 2017 at 6:30 am #128348
    Should I persist?

    I was chatting to girl on tinder for about a month, we got along really well. After about a week I asked her on date and she went quiet. Three days later I gave her a nudge, she gave me her number.

    I asked her out that Wednesday – said she had plans but they’re likely to cancel – They didn’t so we rearranged for wed next week.

    The night before she says she’s on painkillers for a trapped nerve in her shoulder so can’t make it.

    I said let me know if you want to reconvene, The next day (The Wednesday) she says I have an interview Thurs but shoulder feels better and she should be able to come. – texts later on that day saying now has another interview at 9am so cant make it and says we should try 3rd time lucky.

    Next day I ask her how interview went. she texts back about interview. The next text I send asking about her weekend she ignores

    My question is what do you think – was she too busy? Did she not really want to date me? Should I try again in a few weeks time?

    May 2, 2017 at 3:14 am #135083

    I don’t know… I mean I think she’s actually busy. I’m actually facing a similar problem right now. Did she ever start a conversation or did you have to text her first?

    May 25, 2017 at 1:39 pm #137626

    I mean she is trying to re-arrange other opportunities for you to meet. I would give her one or two more chances. Everyone is busy in their lives and people can make things work if they want to.