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loopsParticipantSeptember 18, 2014 at 7:18 pm #62233
I have been dating a wonderful man for 2 months. We’re over 40. I have had 3 partners (2 cheated). I don’t date a lot. He is a workaholic. I am fine with this and know his time is limited. He canceled his online dating sub but was charged again (I know this is true -same thing happened to me).He now has a 6 month sub – and is online twice a day. he feels he paid for it and so he will use it. He asked me to cancel the recurrning payment in paypal for him which I did -doesn’t cancel his current one though. I don’t have active subscription and have said that I should put my profile back up -he said he doesn’t want me to. He says all the right things – he is looking for committed relationship, he wants me to meet family and friends, he is going to give me a key as I have to wait in my car when he is late from work. I don’t know what to do as I am feeling like Im a booty call now. I feel I need my profile back up to keep my options open – but I don’t want to go against his wishes either.
pumpkinParticipantSeptember 19, 2014 at 5:28 pm #62314
Hey loops. It sounds like he wants you there whenever he wants, but wants to go out and have his fun too. He needs to take his profile down or accept he will lose you
lisaParticipantSeptember 29, 2014 at 11:30 pm #65038
Usually, where there’s smoke, there’s fire, but sometimes, its just a burned roast. If he hasn’t cancelled his dating account, then that’s a HUGE RED FLAG. But if he hasn’t given you pause before, trust him for his word … for now. I don’t recommend reopening your dating account. It sounds like you are basically content with your relationship and are only thinking about reopening your account out of spite or fear of being left behind. Those aren’t good reasons to open an account. If you’re truly all in, ride out the relationship until he gives you a solid reason to end it, THEN reopen you account.
amy92291ParticipantOctober 1, 2014 at 11:45 am #65169
it seems like he just wants to see you whenever he needs you. I suggest you tell him how you feel and then see how things go. if he really likes you, he will stay, and if not, then you know and won’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t even like you.
poppy1996ParticipantOctober 18, 2014 at 11:59 am #66157
Face him.tell him how you really feel. If he likes you,he’d do his best to make you happy.
lostintranslationParticipantNovember 12, 2014 at 5:16 pm #67526
Google stalk his profile name from the dating site. I’m guessing it’s not the only site he is on. Sorry.
kiki2009ParticipantNovember 14, 2014 at 9:43 pm #67601
the fact that he isnt taking that other one down says that MAYBE yes he is happy with you but is still looking. Show him that he can lose you and then you will see whether he actually cares or not. In all reality of the situation if he wants to be with you he will take it down if it makes you happy shouldnt be a big deal if he isnt even using it..
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