Should I Tell Her ?

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Should I Tell Her ?

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    Tim94
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    July 29, 2014 at 11:41 pm #58499
    Should I Tell Her ?

    I should tell my girlfriend of 4 years that I cheated on her with one of her best friends and that her friend is pregnant with my child.

    runtothesun
    runtothesun
    Participant
    July 30, 2014 at 8:49 am #58510

    If you do, be prepared for a long, long time of dealing with bullshit


    shaselai
    Participant
    July 31, 2014 at 12:53 am #58614

    well will the other lady tell your girlfriend if you dont? i think it is better to learn early than later…


    doctabuff
    Participant
    July 31, 2014 at 6:44 pm #58662

    It’s going to come out one way or the other. Your girlfriend deserves the honesty as a human being–especially in this extreme case. If it was just a one night stand or something I’d say forget it, but something this extreme needs to be said.


    Tim94
    Participant
    August 2, 2014 at 7:42 pm #58729

    I’ve decided that I’m going to tell her.


    wonproz
    Participant
    August 3, 2014 at 11:35 pm #58749

    Nope.


    littlejem
    Participant
    August 4, 2014 at 12:29 pm #58779

    Think about whether you would want her to tell you if she was the one that cheated and do that.


    airmattress1
    Participant
    August 7, 2014 at 1:35 pm #58972

    You definitely should. There’s no running away from something like this. The longer you wait, the more hurt she will be.


    greeneyedblonde
    Participant
    August 9, 2014 at 11:40 am #59089

    Maybe don’t tell her some things are best never said unless you want to end things ? She might not forgive you


    Anonymous
    August 9, 2014 at 5:23 pm #59094
    Reply To: Should I Tell Her ?

    If you do, be prepared for a long, long time of dealing with bullshit

    f$%k it tell


    Anonymous
    August 9, 2014 at 5:25 pm #59095
    Reply To: Should I Tell Her ?

    [tell her fool you already started a new family


    kunu
    Participant
    August 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm #59096
    Reply To: Should I Tell Her ?

    This looks unavoidable so I’d tell her asap.