Should I Text Him?


Should I Text Him?

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    January 2, 2013 at 6:35 am #19726
    Should I Text Him?

    I met a guy the other night at a New Year’s Eve gathering. We spent considerable time talking and getting along well. Right after I left, he texted me and asked ‘when are we going out again?’ I responded something along the lines of “I don’t know”. After another text, I signed off with Have a great night!

    Was I too standoffish? Or is it possible he had one too many drinks and has no interest now? Should I text him now?

    God, I hate dating. 🙂

    January 4, 2013 at 3:09 pm #20028

    What was the other text? Did he respond to your “I don’t know” ?

    January 4, 2013 at 5:52 pm #20034

    Hmm, I think you MAY have come off standoff-ish so try to recover and simply invite him to meet up somewhere. No pressure kind of thing, like a coffee date or to a live music show with other friends.

    If he doesn\’t take the bait, it\’s ok. Take baby steps. I think a lot of girls (I assume you are a girl, sorry) over think texting so try to take your time and don\’t get too worked up if he doesn\’t get back to you asap. If he wants to meet up, he\’ll try. Guys prefer to be the chaser anyway, not the chasee!

    good luck!