Should I text this girl that I like?


Should I text this girl that I like?

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    August 5, 2017 at 8:56 pm #144374
    Should I text this girl that I like?

    This is my as simple as it seems. I’m a lifeguard and I work with lots of guards but there is this one girl I have worked with 3 times who I really like. She is also on my swim team. I talk to her when we are working and she doesn’t seem to hate me whic is good. Anyway we have a lifeguard group chat and I have her number I have texted her once or twice about work but that’s all. I’m not sure if I should text her or not cause I feel like it could be weird or random. Should I text her and if so what?

    August 6, 2017 at 8:45 am #144389

    Sure, text her. If she responds and the message is conversational, then she probably seems cool with you texting. If her responses are short and take the conversation to a dead end pretty quickly, then she’s probably not into it. I would put most of my energy of showing interest into the times when you see her. It seems like you see her pretty regularly so it’s not like you have to rush anything. I would, however, take note of her personality. If she’s generally a very friendly or naturally flirty person, then she may just be responding to you how she would with any guy.

    August 6, 2017 at 5:03 pm #144398

    I would message her, definitely. You sound like you are a thoughtful guy (can’t imagine you would ask for advice on here if not). Just be yourself and ask how her weekend has been for example. Good luck! Go easy, take your time.

    August 7, 2017 at 1:19 am #144410

    If you’re already taking to her while working, and you know her well already, I would say to go ahead and text her. She already knows who you are, and if you already have a good connection, it shouldn’t be a problem.

    August 7, 2017 at 7:40 am #144430

    I think you should go for it, what do you have to lose?

    August 7, 2017 at 11:29 pm #144554


    August 10, 2017 at 12:30 am #144818

    Yeah sure go for it. It wont be the end of the world.