Shy, not sure, or not interested?

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Shy, not sure, or not interested?

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    blurfan
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    January 31, 2016 at 11:54 pm #92504
    Shy, not sure, or not interested?

    So I am a college student who has been studying off and on with this girl for about two months. She gave me her number and we texted but I always initiated and sometimes she wouldn’t respond (although that has been improving recently). I asked her if she’d like to get some dinner and she agreed but then she cancelled less than an hour before because she didn’t feel well and suggested lunch instead. I am now on my third lunch with her but I am yet to see any obvious signs that she’s into me. We have pleasant and engaging conversations but I always start them and I am concerned that she is not interested or that she is friend zoning me. Do you think she is shy, not sure about me yet, or just not interested?

    angela2000
    angela2000
    Participant
    February 1, 2016 at 2:45 am #92507

    Could be for a number of reasons. Don’t blame yourself. Set up another date in a couple of weeks. If she cancels then just let her text you. If she is interested she will text you.