So confused and sick of men losing interest in me when I don't act needy

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So confused and sick of men losing interest in me when I don't act needy

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    SilviaMendez
    SilviaMendez
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    July 31, 2014 at 9:59 am #58631
    So confused and sick of men losing interest in me when I don't act needy

    I am just so sick of men playing games. It has happened so many times where I meet a guy, he seems really interested in me and then we don’t even get to have a date and he loses interest in me! I know I am not a boring person and men do find me attractive so what is wrong with me??? I can tell you what happened last and this might help you understand where I am coming from….

    I was recently overseas and met a guy while I was away. He lives in a city about 2 hours from me. We got along really well and to be honest I wasn’t instantly attracted to him, but after spending a whole day with him I started to like him and he liked me back.
    I went back home and he stayed overseas. We chatted everyday on facebook and he would call me from time to time. I made sure that I waited for him to message me or we took turns. I wanted him to know that I was interested but I never told him over facebook that I couldn’t wait to see him as I didnt want to scare him off.


    doctabuff
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    July 31, 2014 at 6:51 pm #58664

    What do you expect the guy to do from over-seas to validate his interest? How do you know he lost interest?

    August 2, 2014 at 1:22 am #58707

    Tell her