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[ashokkn89Participant]

September 1, 2017 at 8:13 am #147849

So I have a crush on one of my haters.

So a little bit about myself. I’ve never had a girlfriend in my entire life, still a virgin but I’ve never had any lewd thoughts or made any kind of sexual advances towards women.

Anyway, since 2012, I’ve had a crush on this girl in the same community as me (We’re both anime fans and frequent anime events). For the sake of privacy, I’ll refer to her as “Luna”. Never had like sexual thoughts about her but I find her attractive.

So here’s where the problem lies: She hates me. In the anime fandom, I’m considered an outcast. She’s even accused me that I was stalking her and also for being this anonymous harasser who had posted pics of her breasts on social media. Doesn’t exactly help that she’s popular but is a bimbo.

Yet, despite all that, I’m attracted to her, and I’m not sure why I have such feelings. I feel hurt but then yet, I want to empathise.

Anyway, anyone been through this before? Any advice or solutions? Do let me know. Thanks.