Take the chance at long distance?

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Take the chance at long distance?

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    Aquaticus
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    November 5, 2017 at 5:22 pm #155122
    Take the chance at long distance?

    Ok. I’m new to this site, so bear with me.

    My last relationship has left me with a bitter taste towards long-distance relationships yet the girl I like lives in a different state. This girl went to high school with me 6 years ago. Around the time I started developing feelings for her I found out that she was moving to Colorado and decided not to pursue her. She and I chat occasionally and we are always interested in each others lives. Personally I think it’s cause she works at an aquarium and I plan on working with marine conservation organizations. The latest topic was scuba diving since she got her certification over the summer and I have been certified for 4 years now. We talk about where we would go diving and whenever I bring up her coming down to the coast for some diving she is definitely interested. My question is if it is worth taking the chance and seeing if she is interested in me, even though I’m not fond of long distance? Sorry if this isn’t enough info to go off of.


    sandeep87
    Participant
    November 6, 2017 at 12:06 am #155139

    well the times we live, distance is not a problem. Once its confirmed that you and she are having interests on each other. One can move to the state other is living. so i guess you should just think about to tell her your feelings and knowing her’s


    sikkiness
    Participant
    November 6, 2017 at 6:40 pm #155324

    if you like eachother, distance should not be a very big problem


    Vile
    Participant
    November 7, 2017 at 6:09 pm #155493

    You can visit often and call her everyday


    Vile
    Participant
    November 7, 2017 at 6:15 pm #155494

    Call her everyday and visit twice a year and you’ll be fine.


    costarica
    Participant
    November 7, 2017 at 9:27 pm #155503

    Distance is not matter if you really interested with her you will do some effort.

    Mel4everable
    Mel4everable
    Participant
    November 9, 2017 at 11:09 am #155716

    I agree with the others. Honestly, I believe that long distance relationships can work if both persons are interested equally in each other and trust and respect each other. It’s also a must to be able to communicate with each other extensively during this period. However, you should only consider entering a long distance relationship IF YOU ACTUALLY SEE A FUTURE WITH HER, if not, it’s not worth it. I hope this helps and please let me know how it goes.


    JohnWhite87
    Participant
    November 9, 2017 at 11:21 am #155730

    Yeah bro, you should defiantly take that chance you guys have a decent friendship and you both seem very interested. Go ahead and plan that visit for her and see where you guys goals for a relationship line up. Sounds like that’s what you’re aiming for anyway.

    vanessa
    vanessa
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    November 10, 2017 at 12:37 am #155839

    long distance scares me


    juliejones
    Participant
    November 12, 2017 at 7:12 am #155912
    Reply To: Take the chance at long distance?

    I agree that you should try and see where the relationship goes before starting to worry about a long distance relationship. If you do start a relationship and both want it to continue then distance really shouldn’t be a problem. You can speak and video call very day if you feel the need to and if it starts to get very serious only then think about whether either one of you should move. At the moment you are worrying about things before they have happened.

    Ask her if she wants a relationship with you and see how it goes from there. I understand long distance relationship can be taxing and potentially there are bigger trust issues as you don’t see the person on a regular basis, but these are things you don’t need to worry about at the start of the relationship. Just take her on a diving trip and see what happens.


    handsomeguy
    Participant
    November 12, 2017 at 11:33 pm #155952
    Reply To: Take the chance at long distance?

    its not easy to be in a long distance..


    armadroth
    Participant
    November 13, 2017 at 9:36 pm #156196
    Reply To: Take the chance at long distance?

    I say why not, never know what could happen. Better to try it and find out then be left wondering what could’ve been.


    guseri
    Participant
    November 14, 2017 at 8:39 am #156207
    Reply To: Take the chance at long distance?

    Im currently in a long distance Europe – Canada, two years next month, try it out! the key is always honest and open communication, as any lasting relationship.


    Louis Richards
    Participant
    November 14, 2017 at 3:47 pm #156369
    Reply To: Take the chance at long distance?

    I have been in your place and LDR are hard!! you guys need to trust in each other and be serious about it