Tension between my friend and I

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Tension between my friend and I

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    JDfromNY
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    July 23, 2015 at 9:08 am #83174
    Tension between my friend and I

    I feel like there has been tension between us sexually.She usually agrees with me. She does flirt with me, like tossing her hair, pointing her leg toward me, leaning in when we talk. She responds back to me fast when we text.

    A few weeks ago, I touched her on the back, and she touched me back instantly in the knee , and she never did that before, like at least from what I remember. She went away for a few days and we hugged and kissed like a friend but on the lips and for some reason I opened my eyes first and noticed her eyes were closed and she opened them slowly an had a look on her, well she did it again tonight and I am suspecting she might have a thing for me.

    Last year we were in her bedroom smoking the reefer, and we were on the bed and she kissed me on the lips, we held it for awhile just on the lips though, it was kind of weird at the time.

    I value our friendship, so I’m kind of confused as what to do. Should I go for it?


    JDfromNY
    Participant
    July 23, 2015 at 9:17 am #83175

    Also a few months ago, she was going to a party with her friends and she had a white dress on and asked me how she looked. But at the time I didn’t think much of it, because I just viewed her as a friend.


    JDfromNY
    Participant
    July 24, 2015 at 8:21 am #83176

    And I also forgot to write down I can tell we watch each other from the corner of our eyes. Like last night I looked at her I had my legs apart and it happened so quick but from the looks of it she was looking at my junk, her eyes moved up as soon as I turned. She was rubbing my arm after we kissed, and to me most of my past gfs that was a show of affection.

    Is she just sexually attracted to me or does she like me more than that?


    JDfromNY
    Participant
    July 24, 2015 at 8:21 am #83184

    Wow never really thought about the possibility that she could be more into me, than I am with her. Perhaps I will need to think a little bit about this. I do love her she is practically my best friend!

    I was wandering what the meaning behind to kiss is like how it played out I am not the greatest at reading signs sometimes, and how she pulled away with her eyes closed and slowly opening them, was definitely different experience I am used to. Mind you she did this two times.

    Last night too I was sitting and looked to my left and noticed she was looking down checking me out she kind of acted shy about it, she quickly moved her eyes.

    Thank you again!!


    alexadating3229
    Participant
    July 24, 2015 at 9:57 pm #83215

    Ok, she’s interested in something. It’s really hard to say if it’s more than sex tho….


    srm1325
    Participant
    July 24, 2015 at 10:18 pm #83216

    It sounds like you are interested and perhaps over analyzing. But she may have a thing for you as well. Start flirting with her and see how she responds.