Text or not


Text or not

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    February 15, 2015 at 3:22 pm #73474
    Text or not

    Hi, so this is my dilema – there is a girl, she texted me about a 5 month ago and i didn’t respond because i missed the messege. Then we accidently met at a bar. It was very nice, kissing etc and she told me that she want’s me to textx her this time the other day. She said that she was very dissapointed that i didn’t answer the first time and that she very rarely writes first like this to someone. The other day i texted her because i liked her, i said that i would like to meet again if she wants. She responded that she would love to but was very busy at work at that time (i don’t know if that was true). I said no problem, just send me a messege when you want to go. Then i texted her one more time a week later. We talked no problem, it was nice.
    But she never send me a messege first, only when i first send messege to her. Now it’s about week and half, and she still didn’t write any messege. Should I be again the one to send a messege first or should i just wait if she writes me?

    February 16, 2015 at 9:50 am #73479

    Yeah I would just go for it. What’s the worst that can happen? She might be one of those girls that thinks the guys always have to text first. (Which I think is ridiculous.)

    February 17, 2015 at 11:19 am #73548

    Yeah man go for it buddy! Good luck

    February 17, 2015 at 12:54 pm #73560

    I think you should do it.

    February 17, 2015 at 5:17 pm #73631

    Yeah, she’s definitely showed a lot of interest already so I’d say go for it. Some girls just think the guy has to text them first to “not be annoying”, etc. Definitely worth texting her again.

    February 22, 2015 at 3:22 pm #73884

    I would!

    Quiet guy
    February 22, 2015 at 4:15 pm #73889

    Like everyone else, I would.

    good luck

    February 22, 2015 at 8:52 pm #73893

    Yeah text her! She likes you man

    February 22, 2015 at 9:53 pm #73902

    do it man! good luck!

    February 22, 2015 at 11:29 pm #73904
    Reply To: Text or not

    Set up a date, and if she doesn’t follow through, move on.

    February 23, 2015 at 9:21 am #73917
    Reply To: Text or not

    Just send another text.