The Confusing Ex

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The Confusing Ex

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    steph1989
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    December 1, 2015 at 1:37 am #89161
    The Confusing Ex

    When I first met this guy I was crazy about him, and I pretty much fell in love with him. We dated for only a short time though unfortunately. That was over 5 years ago. As of a couple of months ago he reached out to me and we’ve started talking. We hung out a couple of times and the passion and chemistry was definitely there. I don’t live close to him though and distance has never worked for me in the past. He agreed we shouldn’t date unless we lived closer to each other. We kept in touch and kept texting each other. However, as of late he has been slowly not texting as much and starting to just flat out ignore me. I’m not sure what I did. really I didn’t do anything and it seems like he’s being a coward. When we hung out, I know we both had a great time and thought things could maybe progress, but now I am confused because they have done the opposite. Time to move on or give it another chance? Looking for a guy perspective on this as well.


    mazman
    Participant
    January 4, 2016 at 8:10 am #90705

    He has probably met someone else or tired of the txting friendship. ask him. If he has no gf. Let him know how you are feeling. Tell him you think there could be something special between you two and you would like to continue to be friends and see if it could lead to more. If he has a gf, tell him you understand and do not txt him. Maybe once a month or so check back with him and ask hows he is doing. There is a possibility it will end and he will be anxious to see if you are the one.