The wait is killing me!

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The wait is killing me!

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    GG420
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    January 20, 2015 at 3:09 am #71269
    The wait is killing me!

    Ok so me and my girl had sex within the first week we where dating and after that she decided to wait 3 months until we do it again. Now im fine with her wanting to wait and all that but seriously did she have to tease me before having to wait 3 months… Its kind of a piss off haha I dont know what to do and im 1 month in and I don’t think I can hold out anymore haha.

    Roxy
    Roxy
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    January 20, 2015 at 4:37 am #71270

    Oh that’s got to be tough ha. She obviously felt she wasn’t ready but the fact she’s put a time limit on when you guys will do it again it makes me feel she wants to find out if your serious about her and not just wanting sex. Is she willing to maybe to other things to satisfy each other? Best thing you can do is tell her your willing to wait and she’ll know your not just there for the sex.

    If sex really is that important and it you feel your not going to stay faithful it’s probably best to have a talk with her about how important it is.

    I could be wrong but feels like she’s withholding sex as a sort of test which I think is completely wrong. Fair enough if she just said I’m not ready for that just yet and asked if you could wait till she’s ready. But putting a time on it makes it seems like a test. I could be wrong on this but it’s probably best to talk to her about it.

    dmj106
    dmj106
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    January 20, 2015 at 3:31 pm #71321

    From a person who’s gone almost 24 years without ever having sex, I would give you encouraging words like “You can do it man!” It’s not that tough, especially if you do really care for this person. The relationship should be more important than the sex, although the sex does matter. You could get sex more than likely whenever you’d like from someone else, but is it meaningful and fulfilling? That’s the question you need to ask yourself.


    The_ScarletClaw
    Participant
    January 21, 2015 at 1:29 am #71339

    I’ll just keep my answer simple. If you have sex with her, then there is a possibility of you getting her pregnant. Even if you use condoms and/or other styles of protections, there is still the risk of her getting pregnant. Or even worse, an STD. But if you wait till after you find the right girl and get married, having sex with her and getting her pregnant won’t be such a big deal then.
    I’m 18 right now. I’ve dated this one girl for about a year now and I haven’t had sex. I’m waiting till marriage and she’s perfectly fine with that. If I can wait, then you can wait.