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I am 16 years old and I completely feel like I am in love with this girl who lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school. I have never talked to her but she is just so beautiful that I just can’t. I really want her but I am scared to talk to her and what to do. I see her pretty much everyday around school and we usually make eye contact every time and she will sometimes smile if that means anything much.
I would just like some help on what I should do. Also she is usually with one of her friends a lot.
Bookworm115ParticipantFebruary 14, 2016 at 8:18 pm #93534
It certainly sounds like you’ve been worrying quite a bit about this, so it’s good that you’ve posted. Has she lived in your neighborhood for a while, or has she just moved in?
My advice would just be to start out with just a simple “hi, how’s it going,” maybe as you’re passing by in between classes, and then see where it goes from there – if she’s interested in speaking, ask about hobbies and stuff. Take it slowly.
If you find you’re really nervous, you might try talking to a coach or a counselor at school or something for advice.
Med91ParticipantFebruary 15, 2016 at 6:38 am #93550
If you are really nervous you could always start of by texting her or something so you can get to know her before hand?February 15, 2016 at 2:10 pm #93598
See that’s what I was thinking but I think it looks better to talk in person first and it can be less awkward. My friend gave me her snapchat but i’m not sure if I should add it and what to do when she adds me.February 16, 2016 at 9:05 am #93601
She has lived here for about a year, and sure I could do some small talk but from what I have heard she is a bit shy also. So small talk with another shy person can lead to some awkwardness in between.
Nathanbrady077ParticipantFebruary 16, 2016 at 8:19 pm #93731
Talking in person would give you a better first impression. And first impressions are important. Your first time talking to her doesn’t have to be made a big deal out of. Just go up to her and say “hey, how’s it going?” Or something similar. Act confident though. Confidence is key.
unicornsParticipantFebruary 18, 2016 at 4:03 pm #93878
text her first and see how she feels about it. continue to ask about her everyday and start to hang out you’ll get closer and you’ll get to tell her how you feel and you’re giving her a chance to feel the same way
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