Think I ruined everything.

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Think I ruined everything.

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    doodles
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    February 11, 2014 at 2:50 pm #47593
    Think I ruined everything.

    Last weekend the boy I’ve been involved with for 7 months asked me to come up with his friends to visit him at his school, and it was one of the best weekends of my life. I felt so loved, I felt so comfortable with him, I loved meeting his friends. We didn’t talk about what we “were”, though. We’ve never made anything official. As I was leaving, I kissed him goodbye and about to walk out the door, and I heard “love you.” It was said so quickly, I didn’t respond to it, I kissed him again squeezed his face and left.
    I thought about it the whole car ride home. Wondering if I should have said anything. When I got home about 5 hours later, I called him. And I said, “As I was leaving…you…you said..something.” And he said “what yeah I just said ‘later'”.
    I know I heard it. I don’t know how I’d make it up. Am I crazy? Or hard of hearing? Is he just embarrassed, or did he not mean to say it? I’m questioning my sanity. I feel so lost right now. Did I ruin everything? Do I apologize?


    summer90
    Participant
    February 11, 2014 at 8:56 pm #47599

    He might have said it out of habit, like when your on the phone with your parents and say “okay love you bye”. I would just keep going with the relationship and the next time he says make in known that you heard it 🙂


    blueflower
    Participant
    February 12, 2014 at 8:46 am #47605

    I agree with summer90. Give it another try.


    chrontar
    Participant
    February 12, 2014 at 7:38 pm #47673

    You heard it, hes probably just embarrassed because you didn’t say it back. I disagree with summer90. If he said it, he said it because he meant it. If you do love him, tell him. If not, but you still want to continue seeing him, then don’t make a big deal out of it and act like it didn’t even happen.