Third Date???

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Third Date???

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    Elders11209
    Participant
    September 15, 2013 at 6:54 pm #38921
    Third Date???

    Met a cool guy online. First meeting was great (on a Wednesday) for simple drinks. He made sure he asked for a second date and suggested that Saturday. Had a great second date (saw a rock show in NYC). Afterwards we met up with his friends at a bar (yes, I got introduced to all his friends). All body language with him is there (held my hand, leaned toward me entire time, made a lot of eye contact and lots of smiles). He thanked me several times for coming out and meeting all his friends, etc.
    He hailed a cab for me and since the cab driver was staring and waiting, we had a quick kiss. I said, “I had a great time, gimme a call”. He gave a huge smile and said “YES”, but no mention of any plans for a third date? I got a text from him this morning (Sunday) with a pic of his breakfast saying “im having a nice Sunday so far…and you”? We had a simple text convo………………….but that’s it.
    Im very new to dating again (after a long term thing), and dating is a mindfield! Im not sure how to proceed. Do I wait on him to ask for a third? Do I make the plans this time? Is he really not that into a third date? He was asking what my typical wknd plans are……? Maybe hes pacing so he’s not intrusive??? I do like him and want to see him again but I dont want to smother anyone..Help! 🙁


    yobitch
    Participant
    September 19, 2013 at 2:25 pm #39304

    it’s the 21st century, you should ask him. don’t be afraid to take chances. he’s sending you all the right signs


    betsy588
    Participant
    September 19, 2013 at 2:40 pm #39333

    I’m the type to wait for the guy too so i say wait. If he likes you he will make the move. I usually wait a month before I start making the plans taht way I know he’s worth it. If he’s still around after a month then I don’t mind putting myself out theere i’m old fashioned so I think the guy should work really hard at the beginning. Good luck girl!

    datingisamazing
    datingisamazing
    Participant
    September 20, 2013 at 4:49 pm #39442

    If you really want to go on a third date, then just ask him! Traditional gender roles are changing and thinking in an old-fashioned mindset may make you miss out on someone you really want to be with. Take a risk and be the one to ask him! If he says no, then he’s simply not interested any longer and you move on.

    dressygrl
    dressygrl
    Participant
    September 26, 2013 at 2:26 pm #40073

    You could always spark up a conversation via text and see where it goes. See how he is responding and if it’s a good chat you can always ask him out then. 💡


    cntrygrl26
    Participant
    November 11, 2013 at 1:28 pm #42676

    i would ask him, there is nothing wrong with you asking him to do something every now and again


    coldflair77
    Participant
    November 11, 2013 at 4:45 pm #42680

    If you want a third date then ask him for one. If he text you the morning after the 2nd then he is interested. Don’t lose a good thing


    orpana
    Participant
    November 17, 2013 at 10:42 am #42968

    yeah just ask him, you shouldn’t leave it all up to him for plans