this feeling of insecurity is killing me. everytime i think she doesnt like me

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this feeling of insecurity is killing me. everytime i think she doesnt like me

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  • ilikepancakes1337
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    June 15, 2017 at 4:24 pm #139609
    this feeling of insecurity is killing me. everytime i think she doesnt like me

    so im dating this girl. its all fun and stuff. but every now and then i get the feeling she doesnt like me back. she kissed me and slept over (didnt had sex). but she sometimes does thing that makes me wonder if she like me. so yesterday she asked to hang out and we did. but the whole night i had the feeling something was off. at the end we hold hands and we even kissed. yet i had the feeling she didnt hold my hand that firmly and the kissed wasnt real. at the end of the night i asked when i would see her again and asked if she was down for chilling on tuesday. it was like she was looking for an excuse not to hang out so she just ended with we’ll see. today i asked if she still was down but she said she had something already up. i dont know why but this all makes me wonder if she still likes me despite all other signals… its making me kinda paranoia. i know this kind of thinking isnt good and im probably overthinking it but i just cant help it. any thought about this?

    richiro
    richiro
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    June 15, 2017 at 6:00 pm #139631

    she’s into you. if they’re holding hands, kissing, staying overnight.. thrye’ into you.
    what would it take for you to feel secure about her feelings for you?

    you will need to resolve why you are so insecure or else you’ll lose her.