This girl confuses me big time, please help me..

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This girl confuses me big time, please help me..

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    ogbooyaka
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    August 11, 2015 at 7:16 pm #83917
    This girl confuses me big time, please help me..

    This chick rejected me last year when I asked her if she had feelings for me I told her i couldnt be friends with her and cut the contact
    2 months ago I got to know she had developed a crush on me.

    I got drunk one night after i got to know that and decided to drunk text her, this led to an argument and where she eventually said that she doesn’t have feelings for me ( she said it after like 10 messages back and forth, not a direct ”no” or something like that) I talked to her in person 2 weeks later and she was happy and smiling when we talked. She even played with her hair and seemed a bit nervous? I told her i was sorry and she said it was alright. So the next two days she stared at me and tried to be where I was so she could see me.

    I ignored her cuz she rejected me. Weird thing: she is happy and nice whenever we talk but the complete opposite around my friends?
    Now shes avoiding me again… Is she avoiding out of non interest or is she scared i moved on?

    Thanks guys!

    78Star
    78Star
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    August 11, 2015 at 11:16 pm #83920

    That makes no sense, she clearly isn’t making a repeatable pattern for him to fallow, in most cases I would tell him she is crazy and steer clear.

    Also understanding a woman’s heart is ridiculous, out of all the girls I have known no two act the same towards guys, they talk about guys the same, but when it comes down to it it seems they each want a guy to respond perfectly in some cases.


    ogbooyaka
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    August 12, 2015 at 8:26 am #83940

    That makes no sense, she clearly isn’t making a repeatable pattern for him to fallow,

    Ye that is the point. I know im overthinking a lot of things but a lot of people told me im too nice for my own good and shit and I have a hard time letting go feelings once I get them lol.