Thought it was just a hook up…..

DATING ADVICE FORUM

Thought it was just a hook up…..

    Author
    Comments
  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
    DatingAdvice.com
    October 10, 2017 at 6:25 am FORUM ANNOUNCEMENT

    Hey DatingAdvice.com forum readers! Just a quick heads up that a few dating sites are offering a FREE trial to DatingAdvice forum readers. Try it now and meet local singles in just a few minutes! Here are the sites:

    Site Who You'll Meet Today's Deal
    Match.com Casual dating for ages 18-65 Get FREE access
    Elite Singles Educated professionals 25 and older Get FREE access
    AFF.com Hookups, casual encounters Get FREE access

    What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!

    brunette
    brunette
    Participant
    May 21, 2014 at 11:09 pm #53505
    Thought it was just a hook up…..

    Ok so 2 weeks ago a couple of friends and I went to the movies. There were some guys there who were friends with one of the girls I was with so we hung out with them instead of going to the movie. There was this really cute guy and, well-one thing led to another and we ended up hooking up on the roof of the parking garage (even though I’d only met him that night). I thought I was never gonna see him again, but later that night he texted my friend, asking her for my number. We texted that whole night, and the next day I invited him over to my house where we…um.. “hung out” for three hours. He has a reputation of being a guy who hooks up with a lot of girls so I didn’t think he would really keep talking to me. And now we’ve been texting every day, all day for two weeks and he says he really wants me to come to his house. He said he just wanted to watch netflix with me… could he actually be interested in me? He’s hooked up with like 20 girls so I don’t want to get my hopes up….

    PrincessKasey
    PrincessKasey
    Participant
    May 21, 2014 at 11:56 pm #53507

    It depends on what you guys text about- if it’s just flirting- he probably just wants to hook up– but if he is asking about your family and your future- he wants more.


    katiejordannn
    Participant
    May 23, 2014 at 2:50 am #53619

    Try waiting it out and seeing if he opens up to you. If he does, chances are he’s really into you. Since you already hooked up, it’s going to be harder to take it slowly. There’s nothing wrong with starting a relationship that way, but it’ll be harder to see what his true intentions are. Try making a date that takes place in the afternoon. Those are less sexual than night dates. If he makes it through without many sexual advances, he’s probably into you for you and not just the sex aspect of it.


    Anonymous
    May 27, 2014 at 8:43 am #53700

    He’s hooked up with 20 other girls, you’re quite possibly lucky number 21. You could be different, I don’t know the dynamics of the relationship, but you obviously have developed feelings for him so go in there with an open mind, BUT BE CAREFUL.

    If it’s something that isn’t necessary for the time being, why put yourself through unnecessary heartbreak?

    As a male, considering you’ve already “given up the goods” I’m sure his netflix night will turn into another “hang out” session.

    Feel him out consciously and see where his heads at.


    TWINCITYDEZRAY
    Participant
    June 5, 2014 at 7:46 pm #54648

    leave him alone


    tanglelau
    Participant
    June 6, 2014 at 2:07 am #54651

    As i am thinking, maybe you have to learn how to flirt