thoughts, advice for my dilemma with lady

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thoughts, advice for my dilemma with lady

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    eagle-eyes99
    eagle-eyes99
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    November 3, 2015 at 12:55 am #87803
    thoughts, advice for my dilemma with lady

    hey all. here’s the scoop: I’m a 26 y/o male. for simplicity i’ll say i’m Caucasian. there is a woman at work who has been gaining my interest and holding my attention for awhile now. She is 38 and Filipino. i like her and i think we have chemistry. not sure if i should pursue.
    she says she has never married or had children. this seems odd (but maybe not, idk).
    i’m a apprehensive to follow through with her. there is an age gap, cultural and small language barriers. im not at all sure what she thinks about me, but i wouldn’t be here if i thought there was nothing. the age and culture differences don’t affect me, but what about her? is there a big reason why shes single? she seems really great. i dont want to approach her and she think im being foolish or i have a hidden agenda (weird i know). this is a strange situation for me. is there just too much a separation between us, or is there something? any thoughts would be appreciated. ask me for any details.


    Summer20
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    November 3, 2015 at 2:52 am #87808

    I think you should try to have something with her and see if you can make it work