Thoughts on this situation?


Thoughts on this situation?


  • zenman22
    September 17, 2016 at 12:54 pm #111746
    Thoughts on this situation?

    I (M 31) had lunch with a girl (23) I’ve known for a while. Good 3 hour conversation. I paid for lunch & hugged her goodbye, so I think I gave the signal that I’m interested. She told me which days of the week she’s free to meet again.

    Today, I asked about this weekend. Told me she’s busy tonight & festival tomorrow. I’m going to the same festival, so I said let’s meet up, & I asked what bands she’s seeing. She listed them & said the guy she’s going with wants to see this one band. I asked if she’s seeing him, & she said

    her: yea I think it’s a date, but I’m not sure. he didn’t make it clear.
    me: I can stay away at the festival if it helps
    her: it might be a good idea just in case
    me: ok, wish it was me and not him! Have fun
    her: thx you too
    me: let me know if you wanna meet up next week
    her: maybe Sunday. Worst case scenario Wednesday

    Thoughts? Is she’s not interested? Saying it’s a good idea to stay away tomorrow seems weird. & if she isn’t interested, why suggest Wednesday?

    December 13, 2016 at 11:24 am #119954

    It seems like she wants to date you both and see what works better for her… If you’re OK with that good! If not, walk away buddy!

    December 13, 2016 at 5:47 pm #120046

    Hmm, from a girl, she might have been trying to flirt with you. She might also have been trying to make you jealous with another guy. Another possible idea is that she just wants to be friends. Since I don’t personally know the girl, I couldn’t tell which one of these it is. Since you know her the best here, Ill leave it up to you 🙂