zenman22ParticipantSeptember 17, 2016 at 12:54 pm #111746
I (M 31) had lunch with a girl (23) I’ve known for a while. Good 3 hour conversation. I paid for lunch & hugged her goodbye, so I think I gave the signal that I’m interested. She told me which days of the week she’s free to meet again.
Today, I asked about this weekend. Told me she’s busy tonight & festival tomorrow. I’m going to the same festival, so I said let’s meet up, & I asked what bands she’s seeing. She listed them & said the guy she’s going with wants to see this one band. I asked if she’s seeing him, & she said
her: yea I think it’s a date, but I’m not sure. he didn’t make it clear.
me: I can stay away at the festival if it helps
her: it might be a good idea just in case
me: ok, wish it was me and not him! Have fun
her: thx you too
me: let me know if you wanna meet up next week
her: maybe Sunday. Worst case scenario Wednesday
Thoughts? Is she’s not interested? Saying it’s a good idea to stay away tomorrow seems weird. & if she isn’t interested, why suggest Wednesday?
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