zenman22ParticipantSeptember 17, 2016 at 12:54 pm #111746
I (M 31) had lunch with a girl (23) I’ve known for a while. Good 3 hour conversation. I paid for lunch & hugged her goodbye, so I think I gave the signal that I’m interested. She told me which days of the week she’s free to meet again.
Today, I asked about this weekend. Told me she’s busy tonight & festival tomorrow. I’m going to the same festival, so I said let’s meet up, & I asked what bands she’s seeing. She listed them & said the guy she’s going with wants to see this one band. I asked if she’s seeing him, & she said
her: yea I think it’s a date, but I’m not sure. he didn’t make it clear.
me: I can stay away at the festival if it helps
her: it might be a good idea just in case
me: ok, wish it was me and not him! Have fun
her: thx you too
me: let me know if you wanna meet up next week
her: maybe Sunday. Worst case scenario Wednesday
Thoughts? Is she’s not interested? Saying it’s a good idea to stay away tomorrow seems weird. & if she isn’t interested, why suggest Wednesday?
josephddiazzParticipantDecember 13, 2016 at 11:24 am #119954
It seems like she wants to date you both and see what works better for her… If you’re OK with that good! If not, walk away buddy!
WoofiezParticipantDecember 13, 2016 at 5:47 pm #120046
Hmm, from a girl, she might have been trying to flirt with you. She might also have been trying to make you jealous with another guy. Another possible idea is that she just wants to be friends. Since I don’t personally know the girl, I couldn’t tell which one of these it is. Since you know her the best here, Ill leave it up to you 🙂
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