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sebdhaeseParticipantFebruary 23, 2015 at 3:14 am #73910
First a little overview of the situation. I’m a late bloomer, 27 and I have my first “girlfriend” now since 3 weeks. Also my first time sex 3 weeks ago. I think she is a really sweet and nice girl, but …
Even though I manage to have sex with her, I realized, that I’m not really attracted to her. Neither do we have much in common to the point we can hardly do anything together. She is into art, I’m more scientific. We don’t like the same movies or shows, except for a few comedies. She has an obsession with pugs, which can sometimes become annoying. We have a bit of a similar taste in music, but only a bit. Also she seems a little down quite often, which brings me down. I asked her about it, but she always says, that she is fine. There is some more stuff, but it doesn’t really matter. I’m pretty sure she really loves me. I like her, but maybe not in that way.
Should I break up now or wait and see? I’m afraid, I would hurt her more if I wait longer.
DKing3ParticipantFebruary 23, 2015 at 10:21 am #73923
Well bud I think you are right to break it now before you wait longer and it will hurt more. Just remember that there is a lot more to a relationship than just sex. If she is not making you happy and you dont like her as much as she does and are no longer attracted to her, I would cut it and find someone else you have more in common with. They do say opposites attract, but I feel like being TOO different just will not work out in the long run. And yeah man dont get me wrong, I love dogs, but I find pugs very annoying!!! Haha best of luck buddy!!
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