Too many women, what to do?

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Too many women, what to do?

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    cornfused
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    October 27, 2017 at 1:31 pm #154317
    Too many women, what to do?

    This is a long one. I am sort of involved with three women. And I really don’t know what to do.I do not consider any of them my GF.
    Girl #1 – My Ex GF who lives in another country. We were very close and wanted to marry. She is 16 years younger than me. Great body and very cute. We get a long very well and always had amazing sex. She wants kids and I finally told her I don’t. I already raised one. I don’t want to be working forever to support another one. So, I was giving her the cold shoulder and she ended it. But she continues to message me. Saying how she misses me and still wants me. I have to admit I miss her and still care about her a lot.But I haven’t told her this.
    Girl # 2 – After the break up of my Ex GF, I started seeing this escort (no strings right). I only paid her the 1st few times. After my first visit I could tell we had a connection and I thought she may like me more than a client. But you never know as they are paid to make you believe they are into you. See below


    cornfused
    Participant
    October 27, 2017 at 1:39 pm #154318

    Too many women, what to do? PT 2
    So have had been dating the last few months.I really like her and she seems to like me. The sex is beyond awesome. There is a slight language barrier. She was worried I would be jealous with her profession. In a way I was, but I couldn’t really since that’s how we met. We stopped talking for about 3 weeks until a week ago. Then we started talking and I even spent the night last week. She told me she retired from that job and is just relaxing now. I really like this one too. I never imagined liking a escort. FYI she is 32 as well.Girl # 3 – I met this one about a month ago. She is my age(48). Has a great job and owns her own house. She has 2 teenage kids. We talk all the time and have a great time. She seems to really be into me and wants a long term future with me. She’s very attractive, the body is ok(a little mom belly) and sex is average. Any thoughts? I’d love feedback, good or bad.


    Loca
    Participant
    October 27, 2017 at 2:26 pm #154322

    I’m sorry but you set yourself up for that. You lack honesty and the way you describe your women is so shallow and has no depth. You break women down by their body type, how the sex is and their appearance. You just pissed me off. Stop sexualizing women and rating them on a scale of 1-10. Stay single until you stop being so cocky and learn to appreciate women. You don’t deserve it. You haven’t worked for it or tried to understand them


    Hoopit16
    Participant
    October 27, 2017 at 9:36 pm #154333

    You need a life lesson on how to treat woman


    cornfused
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    October 28, 2017 at 10:00 pm #154373

    Hi, I think that you misunderstood a lot of what I was saying. I have never once been dishonest with anyone. And I generalized my post. There’s not enough character count to go into depth. I know all three of them very well and they all have great qualities that go way beyond sex. But sexual chemistry is very important in any relationship. And I didn’t rate anyone 1-10. Not sure where that came from. I am also not a cocky person at all. I was in a horrible marriage for 18 years. I totally deserve to be happy. I have spent lots of time understanding them. In fact I dated the Ex GF for 18 months.


    cornfused
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 10:02 pm #154374

    You need a life lesson on how to treat woman

    I would appreciate advice, not a derogatory statement. thanks