Too soon to ask him to hang out?


Too soon to ask him to hang out?

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    December 14, 2017 at 1:30 am #160030
    Too soon to ask him to hang out?

    I met a guy in the laundromat of my apartment complex in mid-November. While waiting for my clothes to dry, a guy said hello to me and asked how I was doing. I responded with something along the lines of ‘hey, I’m doing well; how are you?’ He responded, then the conversation stopped there because he had to deal with his laundry. He looked at me and grinned, and I grinned back hardcore. My laundry finished and I left the laundromat.

    It made my day that he was so kind but I was wary because guys rarely approach me in person to show they’re interested. It’s also been a while since I last dated anyone, so I was open but not actively looking when this happened. I didn’t get his name or his number and I was so attracted to him that I wonder if I imagined him. I wanted to ask him out for coffee but I felt it was too soon– was it, given that we had just met? Now I regret not talking to him more because I wanted to get to know him better. How do you find someone without their contact info?

    December 15, 2017 at 3:06 am #160165

    I think the only thing you can do is wait until you bump into him again and be ready to seize the opportunity to talk to him when you do. I’m sure you’ll bump into him again somewhere in your apartment complex soon.

    December 15, 2017 at 4:59 pm #160267

    Definitely not too soon, just ask him. Be casual about it when you see him another time.