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    ital78
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    March 6, 2016 at 2:44 pm #95076
    Trust

    i will start of by saying my girlfriend loves me very much and would do anything for me. i am embarrassed to say but i went through my girlfriends phone because of trust issues and saw a text that was off kilter. you can tell the text is more of the guy advancing but it was i knew something was wrong. i told her what i did but didn’t really get into detail of what i saw because i was afraid of the truth and i wanted to see if she would come clean. she told me to stop playing games and i admit that i did play a little bit of a game because i wanted her to admit it. I just said “i saw a text’. 2 weeks go by and i finally hit her directly by asking ‘who is john (not real name). she played stupid and said i don’t know who you are talking about. 2 hours later i sent her an email with his picture. no response and then i asked her again face to face. she admitted it is a guy at work that has been a little too friendly but she told him. She invited him to her hotel room. Nothing hsppened

    laura
    laura
    Participant
    March 6, 2016 at 6:11 pm #95078

    My wise mother once said (after I found emails to my bf of 2 years from an “on-line gf” as she called herself) “You’ll never trust him again”
    She was right, it destroyed our relationship.
    We were buying movie tickets on-line, his computer opened, and an email from her was still up. I am a quick reader, I could tell it had been written by a woman. We bought the tickets, logged off and the email was still there, signed “Emerald”. After 1 1/2 years of no contact, b/c I believe he was happy with me, Emerald made 3 attempts, by phone and email, to contact my b f. He thought it might be important, so he then called her back. It was “their anniversary and she was thinking about him” the email said. Turned out they were sending each other pornographic e-mails which included me and her hubby. We lasted another 5 months, he caught me checking his phone when I thought he was asleep. I was mortified, now know why he got divorced from his 1st wife.
    Why did your gf invite John to he hotel room?


    Green2711
    Participant
    March 8, 2016 at 10:04 pm #95243

    Sounds like she is lying to me. Why would she tell you she invited him into her hotel room? That is only going to make the seed of doubt worse. Furthermore why would she invite someone into her hotel room that she knows is pursuing her? Why would she still be talking to a guy in her private time when she knows he is pursing her?

    Sorry to say this mate but the writing is on the wall.

    Kelscas92
    Kelscas92
    Participant
    March 9, 2016 at 6:20 pm #95319

    You know there is a problem between you two. If she really loved you, she wouldn’t be doing this behind your back and not gone to that hotel at all even if “nothing” happened. Relationships are not about trying to figure out with the other person is doing. You are worth more than this. Don’t be chasing somebody who’s not even working to be with you. Quit it. Your heart and mind will battle but you know what you should do. No trust creates toxic relationships. Deuces cheating girlfriend!