Trying to understand what he wants from me… please help

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Trying to understand what he wants from me… please help

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    JaneyR
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    March 15, 2017 at 11:16 am #130143
    Trying to understand what he wants from me… please help

    So I met a guy at a course and I felt like we clicked right away. He gave me all the signs that he’s interested, such as coming to talk to me every break from class out of other people in the group, looking straight into my eyes and leaning in when we spoke, he texted me a few times and every time on the way home when we parted ways he gave me a very embracive hug and a kiss on the cheek, which he didn’t to with my other girl friends who were there. The course ended and he said I’d see him again, he was very confident about it. But then I heard nothing from him, I texted him and he responded but we didn’t chat for long and since then he didn’t initiate anything. Two weeks later I run into him and he seems happy to see me, offered to walk me where I was heading, did the hug and the kiss, and said “text me every once in a while, let me know what’s up”. Why act that way with me but never make an effort to stay in touch? Any ideas if he meant what he said? Does he really want me to texthim


    lillybug1983
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    March 18, 2017 at 11:47 am #130467

    I’m not sure. Sounds like he’s sending mixed signals. Does he respond back when you text him?

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    phnix76
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    March 18, 2017 at 4:16 pm #130476

    My bet is he has and had a girlfriend to start with. You two clicked and he enjoyed it and the attention for the moment, he even may have had considerations to take it further. He never asked you out despite all confidence he had, why? He gave you public attention, walks, hugs and even kisses on the cheek but didn’t have the balls to ask you out on a date or for even a cup of coffee to test your interest? He probably still likes you and wants you to keep contact in case he breaks up.

    Mixed signal women at least are very often involved elsewhere and enjoying attention and/or keeping you as plan B.


    JaneyR
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    March 18, 2017 at 4:47 pm #130477

    Thanks for your comments!
    lillybug1983- I didn’t text him since the last time I saw him which was a week ago. I assume he would respond if I did.
    phnix76- thank you for trying to explain this, I guess you’re right. Even of he isn’t involved with anyone else right now, it does feel like I’m some sort of a plan be. I’ve also come to the conclusion that it may have been a meaningless flirt to him and nothing more. So I’m trying to let it go and move on, I don’t think anything could go furthur because he didn’t act when he had the chance, and I don’t want a guy that flirts with people and leads them on just to have a plan b…

    • This reply was modified 8 months, 1 week ago by  JaneyR. Reason: typig mistakes