Very confused

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Very confused

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  • hawkeye_pierce
    Participant
    October 29, 2016 at 11:54 am #115756
    Very confused

    I started a graduate program in September, and the first night after chatting with this girl for 10 minutes or so she gave me her phone number saying to call her when I wanted to study. Since then we’ve met up to study a couple of times, went out to lunch, and talked quite a bit. She messages me sort of often, sometimes about school stuff other times just to talk. I want to ask her out, but don’t want to make the situation awkward. I also feel that she may just very friendly. We seem to have a lot in common and get along quite well, I just can’t stop thinking about her. Any perspective on this situation? Should I just wait a bit longer?


    tommybev
    Participant
    October 30, 2016 at 9:28 am #115769

    Hey Mate

    Yeh look i had something similar happen to me. The best advice I can give is to ask her to go on a night out/clubbing. Gradually as you two drink/dance her intentions and feelings towards you might become more apparent. Also don’t expect her to make the first move if you think a kiss is on the cards on a night out.