Very Confused… About this Girl…

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Very Confused… About this Girl…

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    Payaslow
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    September 3, 2015 at 9:13 am #85057
    Very Confused… About this Girl…

    I met this girl about a year ago and she goes to the local university and for a long time i would text her with mostly no reply and i’d call her and still little to no reply so i stopped after realizing she had a BF. Flash forward to next school year. After the summer was about over she sent me a message on Facebook saying,”I’ve been thinking about you.. And when i comeback could we grab lunch and talk about her summer.” So i started messaging her and it was great. So after about a month she invites herself to go to the concert me and my mom are going to and the first thing she talks about is how much weight i lost and that i look.”Really good.” Next weekend was another concert and she brings 2 friends a boy and a girl. I was kinda sad about the boy at first but after a while she started flirting with me and started touching me (my hand and arm) and even leaned on me during the concert.

    Payaslow
    Payaslow
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    September 3, 2015 at 9:14 am #85058

    My family was also there and told me to start making moves. So i text her if she was going to service yesterday because i was going to ask her if she wanted to hang out but she didn’t reply.. And she didn’t go to church which i wish she would’ve just said she couldn’t. Also not replying to me drove me to lose interest and give up in the past… I wanted to call her today but i was nervous she wouldn’t answer and it would be like last year… So i ask one of my good friends what i should do, he tells me to text her right now(Last night around 11) saying,”hey,are you alright?” and to go from there and whatever happens, happens. I wasn’t for sure about it but i did and she replies about 30 minutes later saying,”Yes??” So at this point my friend is not replying and i really don’t know what to reply to her so i just don’t reply. Thinking i’ll handle it tomorrow but i’m still not sure what i should do. So now i’m very confused as of what to do. How should i reply? Should i call her?


    pragmaster
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 6:01 pm #85104

    Hey,

    I think youre overthinking things. If she is interested she will show it, if not she wont. I can`t tell from what you have written and perhaps noone else can.

    My advice? Dont sweat it. There are many women out there. Dont be clingy or needy. If you have a crush on this girl, be direct in how you feel and stop expecting outcomes.

    Cheers!


    janedoe
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 6:50 pm #85108

    It looks good. Seems like she like you!

    EmilyLsays
    EmilyLsays
    Participant
    September 6, 2015 at 12:18 pm #85186

    it is important to not be clingy, it will scare them away.