Waiting to become physically intimiate

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Waiting to become physically intimiate

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    tara
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    August 23, 2014 at 6:25 pm #59891
    Waiting to become physically intimiate

    Seems with dating nowdays, guys expect to be physically intimiate so soon like the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date. I can’t even imagine having sex within the first few dates. I can’t imagine sleeping over at a guy’s apartment within just a few dates. You barely know this person, you don’t know if they have STD’s. To me its just incredibly irresponsible. I don’t have much experience with dating. I’m a 33 year old woman who is still a virgin. Dating isn’t about sex to me. Maybe I am old fashioned but I would never have sex with someone I didn’t love and wasn’t in a long term relationship with. So at a minimium I could never imagine becoming intimiate with some before at least 4 to 6 months. However I wonder if there are any guys out there that are willing to wait? I want to find a relationship, not just have sex. I don’t even kiss on a first date, cause again I barely know the guy at that point. I want to DATE, as in go places with the guy, find out about him, see if we have things in common with eachother. Sometimes I think I belong in a different century cause seems nowdays all anyone cares about is sex instead of actually getting to know the person.