Want to date but scared to

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Want to date but scared to

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  • madhatty
    madhatty
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    March 23, 2017 at 9:17 pm #131019
    Want to date but scared to

    Okay so I’ve been in one relationship before and have dated before, however that was over a year ago and now that I’ve moved cities for uni I’ve been wanting to meet some people and possibly date or get into a relationship, but my problem is is that when someone asks me on a date something stops me. I had been asked on a date today and I had managed to say yes, but I got this anxious feeling and blocked the guy on everything because I was having a borderline panic attack. I should also mention that every date I’ve been on (3) has been awful and extremely awkward, which isn’t great for a not-so-confident person like myself, and that when I was in a relationship with my ex (didn’t last long) I started getting the same anxious feeling when things progressed further during our relationship and that I completely blame myself for it falling apart. I don’t know if it is down to horrible experiences or if there is something wrong with me and if anyone has advice to get over it? Thanks x