Was I ghosted?


Was I ghosted?

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    July 22, 2015 at 11:58 am #83132
    Was I ghosted?

    Met a guy on Tinder last week. Non stop texts, calls, photos, date in person on Fri. His work schedule was changed and instead of rescheduling took 2 trains to come and see me at work so that we could still have a “date” however brief. It was so great, that he asked me to ride with him to work so we could keep talking and we continued contact thru the evening. He says wonderful things and wants to visit me the next day, and both we delete our Tinder profiles. I live 70 min. away. Next day he says he cant come due to his roommates leaving unexpectedly and he has to take care of their dog. He begs to come Sunday and says to not take the cancel as him not being interested, he really feels we are meant for each other, yada yada. He was going to check train times and call back after walking the dog. It’s Wed and I’m still waiting for the call. Texts just say delivered, no profile on tinder, called once it just rang. I know where he works and other details but not last name. What happened?

    July 22, 2015 at 4:26 pm #83149

    Probably, people would rather disappear than have a short 5 min awkward conversation. its been done to me and I find it childish and rude

    July 22, 2015 at 10:39 pm #83152

    Give it a day or two, but after that maybe.

    July 24, 2015 at 1:47 pm #83208

    Maybe he got hit ran over by a bus when walking the dog. Stalk him! haha, j/k, he’s to eager, get it?
    Tinder matches based on physical attraction, you get what you pay for.