Was i used?


Was i used?

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    January 8, 2018 at 4:25 am #161793
    Was i used?

    Ok. This is probably going to be a story that is told a million times on here. Tinder. I matched with a really attractive girl and we hit it off immediately.
    She even sent the first message. Turned out we were well matched in everything, we are both geeky, have creative professions, i am Dom and she is sub, we literally seemed ideal for each other. Without getting into too much details, we met up a few days later, we went on a typical date but i constantly teased her. I enjoy such things. And after a few hours she said she couldn’t take all the teasing anymore and took me back to her place.
    Now, i cant stress enough how amazing this girl is. I’ve been active for 10 years and never before her has someone had such a massive impact on me. She was perfect.
    We got to hers and we had an amazing time. Bdsm, teasing, everything. She even fell asleep in my arms after and said she was glad she’s not single anymore.
    But after i left she has not replied to any of my messages.. what do i do?

    January 16, 2018 at 8:58 am #162422

    Hard to say but if you want her then you should keep trying.

    January 16, 2018 at 4:01 pm #162558

    Life happens. Give her time and if she still doesn’t reply than call her and just to ask how is she doing.

    January 18, 2018 at 11:30 am #162724

    Has she replied at all?

    January 18, 2018 at 9:09 pm #162800

    Just be patient, maybe she is trying to work things out or maybe something happened and she is going through a stressful period. Just again, be patient.

    January 21, 2018 at 6:26 am #162933

    she reads the messages? text her that you have noticed it, that she is not replaying, the best thing you can do then is to ask if everything is alright, not blame her for it, see if she answers that

    January 26, 2018 at 2:25 pm #163543

    I’m just going to call a spade a spade. Tinder is a HOOKUP app. I know very few people who go on there for a real relationship. Most are just messing around. They may go on a date with you, but that’s about the extent of it.

    January 27, 2018 at 3:46 am #163591
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    Dig in, go for it and figure it out.

    January 27, 2018 at 8:21 am #163607
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    Dump her!

    January 28, 2018 at 1:50 am #163613
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    If possible just wait a little while

    January 28, 2018 at 2:59 am #163618
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    wait abit more. girls dont like needa guys

    January 28, 2018 at 2:15 pm #163625
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    I think you should give it some time before coming to conclusions. Just wait for a while, afterwards you can text/call again.

    January 29, 2018 at 6:47 am #163636
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    wait more and don’t keep spamming messages she’ll think your needy, give her the impression that you don’t care that much and she might reply to your messages