Was my ex just being nice to me?

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Was my ex just being nice to me?

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    bberries
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    May 18, 2016 at 2:54 pm #100735
    Was my ex just being nice to me?

    So my I broke up with my ex over a yr ago and the last contact I had with him was back in December when I admitted that I wasn’t over him yet and asked that we don’t talk to each other anymore. The thing is, we were still in touch after the break up, just texting each other to see hi or hello. We broke up in January of 2015, and the whole yr I was set on getting him back so I kept in touch , but last December I decided that I would finally give up on him. And so I went on with my life, dated other guys, then in March, I felt like I moved on already from my ex so I decided to add him on facebook again (I blocked him before when we broke up). Then he approved the request but I didn’t expect him to send me a message. He said he didn’t know I blocked him on fb, and was like hinting on wanting to see me again. He was out of the country at the time and he said he would text me when he gets back so we can meet up, and that he would help me review for my exam as well.


    bberries
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    May 18, 2016 at 3:02 pm #100736

    …So we went out for dinner and movie. And 2 weeks after, I texted him to say hi and he just replied once. Then after a week, he texted me asking me again when Im free so he can help me review for my exam. Then on the day we were supposed to meet each other, he didn’t even text me. And the next day was his birthday, so I greeted him (didn’t mention about the plan) , and then he replied and was saying sorry that the plan to meet up didn’t happen because he was too tired the other night, so he asked me when Im free again. So I told him when Im free to meet up again and then that was the last time I heard from him (2 weeks ago) . I am so confused with his actions. He didn’t even text me on the day that we’re supposed to meet up that he couldn’t make it. I know I should ‘t be hoping that he wants to get back together, but I realized I haven’t really moved on yet, and I still want him back. Why is he doing all these things? Was he just trying to be nice to me? Or is he just playing games?