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old enough

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September 6, 2015 at 12:42 pm #85190

Wasting my life

Ok so here goes. I’m over 50 and have been married and divorced. I am engaged to a man now that I been with most of 6 years. He proposed 2+ years ago after a break up we had due to his drinking and verbal abuse. Since we got back together he hasn’t verbally abused me. He postponed our marriage due to wanting to turn 50 first. He did that this year. He now looks at porn on his phone and half naked women much younger than me. He drinks every night to the point of being drunk then wants sex with me. I’m totally disgusted with the porn and pictures. Then he lies about them and about his past relationships. I actually met a friend of his he swore he didn’t really know well. Come to find out, he had a relationship with her for a few years. Why does he lie???

levelup

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September 28, 2015 at 10:21 pm #86107

Sorry you are going through this. But I guess he lies because he thinks he can get away with it. And he does if you let him… I think you can do better. If you think you are wasting your life now how will you feel 2, 5, 10 years from now with him?

happy15

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October 3, 2015 at 3:49 pm #86434

You can do much better than a man who will lie to you. His drinking is a problem. As is the porn if youre not comfortable with it. Sounds like this is a pattern with him. Cut your losses and run, you’ve been divorced so you know what am unhappy marriage is, don’t put yourself in the same position. You deserve better!