We broke up and he posted this on Instagram…


We broke up and he posted this on Instagram…

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    September 7, 2017 at 7:11 pm #148548
    We broke up and he posted this on Instagram…

    We dated for a year, but just last week I ended things because I was feeling under valued and he needed to figure out what he wanted. It has since been a week of NC and he’s reached out once (I didn’t respond). He asked if I had watched a TV episode from a show we like (I’m sure just testing the water). Then today, he posted this on Facebook with a picture of an airplane window and clouds. He’s currently traveling for work.

    “Life is legit so beautiful. You make exactly what you put in. I feel so lucky and blessed at the same time for the people I’ve been able to spend it with. Do work, let’s go.”

    Um, what? Did he just move on?

    September 8, 2017 at 11:10 am #148612

    Sometimes you have to seize an opportunity never think someone will wait for you.

    September 9, 2017 at 1:45 pm #148671

    Don’t analyze what you see on social media. Everyone wants to paint a picture of only the good moments in their lives. No one has a “quote perfect” or “picture perfect” life. Don’t do this to yourself. Go find yourself. Do some reflecting and share your talents with the world. You will see how many people appreciate you for helping them and giving them your time. In due time, you will meet someone who appreciate you for who you are. Whenever you feel like you’re lacking, give something good away – you will stop feeling empty. This is based on personal experience.

    September 9, 2017 at 5:48 pm #148673

    He might be trying to provoke a reaction, and kinda half mean what he is saying there. People sometimes put stuff like that up and I think it’s totally corny.. blessed and all that… hah.. please

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    September 9, 2017 at 10:41 pm #148676

    i agree he might just be trying to get a response from you

    September 12, 2017 at 7:50 am #148642

    As in I shouldn’t wait on him?

    September 12, 2017 at 9:28 am #148772

    Sounds like he could be trying to get a reaction from you. Nobody can move on that fast unless he wasn’t feeling great in the relationship for a little while before you two broke up. If you’re trying to move on from him I’d just leave it, don’t take the bait.

    September 16, 2017 at 8:10 pm #149278

    To me it sounds like he wants you to think he doesn’t care about the break-up but that he actually does care. If he truly wasn’t bothered, he wouldn’t have felt the need to post something like that.