What am I doing wrong? Help me understand relationships

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What am I doing wrong? Help me understand relationships

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    hopelessromantic012
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    October 18, 2014 at 11:02 pm #66165
    What am I doing wrong? Help me understand relationships

    I’m 20 years old and only had 3 girlfriends(dated all of them when I was 15-16) they all only lasted about 3 weeks, one of them I only dated them because they were gay, and the other 2 I dated because I actually liked them. but the problem was when I asked them to be my girlfriend, they only dated me because they didn’t want to tell me no. (I figured that out after we dated) every since then I’ve been afraid to tell girls that I like them because fear of rejection or just being lead on. Why didn’t they just tell me that they didn’t want to be with me? Why do girls like to lead me on? Or when I tell them that I like them, they just throw in my face like I’m nothing? And it hurts because I wouldn’t do that to them, I would give them the world. Well at least try to. I know everyone has their problems, but what is their problem? What am I doing wrong? Because at this point, I would rather go through my life emotionless. any tips or ideas are welcome. thanks

    kerry
    kerry
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    October 20, 2014 at 2:33 am #66201

    Best thing you can do is go live your life.


    Jodi
    Participant
    November 27, 2014 at 8:47 am #68257

    Dating in your teens can be very different to dating when you are an adult. I’m sure that when you find someone a little more emotionally mature, you will have a better experience and this person will see you for the considerate person you seem to be. (Although in my experience, finding adults who are emotionally mature can be a bit of a task in itself!). These girls didn’t sound like they had the maturity to commit to a proper relationship or even treat you in a reasonable way. It probably isn’t a reflection on you or anything you did, but rather them not knowing what they want themselves. Confusing times when you are 16. I would suggest getting to know someone well before taking it to the level of a relationship, and definately don’t make the mistake I did of going to gay clubs to meet women – very difficult to find someone there who is looking for anything more than a bit of fun. (although not always the case).

    paniii
    paniii
    Participant
    December 5, 2014 at 12:33 pm #68775

    forget about past and live your life to the fullest

    SonadowverLesbian
    SonadowverLesbian
    Participant
    March 23, 2015 at 9:52 pm #75868

    I am 11 years old and have wanted a female for a while… I’m into one of my straight bff’s, and she has no idea i’m a lesbo. She thinks the hugs I give her are playful or friendly hugs… am I doing something wrong too? Do any of you have advice on how to get above that state?

    (P.S. I’m sorry… I know it’s off topic. XD)


    catadult
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    April 21, 2015 at 1:17 pm #77647

    Oh well you should move on…