What do guys feel about a girl initiating a kiss?


What do guys feel about a girl initiating a kiss?

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    January 6, 2016 at 5:27 pm #91182
    What do guys feel about a girl initiating a kiss?

    So I recently reconnected with an old friend, who lives abroad now but came back to visit his family for a few weeks. Turns out we have so much in common, and it was so nice to have someone I could have endless conversations with.

    Anyway I saw him for the last time today, we spent 4 hours together and at they end we spoke about how we wouldn’t see each other for another year or more. When we said goodbye we went in for a 50/50 could-be-a kiss-could-be-a-hug… It turned out to be a hug which I could tell neither of us wanted. Then we just stood there for like 5 seconds and looked at each other and he was like “what…?” and I said “I feel like I should kiss you? because I’m not going to see you for ages now” and then he just said “okay” and we made out.

    I am so embarrassed about this, because I feel like I made our goodbye so awkward. Should I text him? Would he have been turned off with my forwardness? What do guys think about girls initiating a kiss in this way?

    January 7, 2016 at 2:22 am #91201

    I don’t think it’s a problem

    January 8, 2016 at 8:50 am #91275

    I personally, don’t mind a woman initiating a kiss with me, as long as I like her and am attracted to her. It takes out the guesswork and not knowing when the woman is ok with being kissed.

    January 11, 2016 at 12:51 am #91407

    I think guys like it when guys initiate anything

    January 11, 2016 at 11:34 am #91423

    sometimes u feel nervous unless the connection is obvious

    January 11, 2016 at 12:34 pm #91426


    I do not think that it is a big problem, maybe it was just unexpected and he did not know what to say!
    Give it some time and wait for him to text you.

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    January 14, 2016 at 9:20 am #91617

    Kissing is by far the most sensual and exciting thing you can do with another person. In a way, a kiss is even more intimate than sex. When you’re completely engaged with another person’s face – your lips, bodies, and minds connecting –you have the potential to create a moment that’s way more intense than a few mere thrusts of the hips.

    But even the sassiest among us sometimes feel insecure when it comes to our tongue tango skills. We asked a very opinionated group of men to tell us what they want to see, feel and taste during a make-out session. What they say may surprise you but one thing’s for sure – it will make you a better kisser!