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What do I do?

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    youd17
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    October 22, 2014 at 8:09 pm #66406
    What do I do?

    I’ll try to make this as short as possible…
    So this past weekend I went out with a guy that I met on a dating app (OKCUPID). We talked for about a week or so before we decided to meet up. He lives close to 5 hours away & I decided that it would be easier to get off of work and go see him. Well, long story short…The weekend went perfectly! We had a blast for 2 days, we did end up having intercourse too. The second night he decided to go home instead of staying at the hotel with me because he didn’t want to rush things. (which is what he told me) Now, he’s not as talkative as he was before in texts. I know guys normally aren’t, but he acts a little different. We had previously made plans for a trip in November (which he is still wanting to go to)
    Another thing that I noticed in the texts is, if I call him handsome he doesn’t call me beautiful anymore, he just says thanks with a smiley face. Should I ask him what’s wrong? Or just leave it be for now?
    Thank you!!


    pusherlove86
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    October 24, 2014 at 10:35 am #66509

    I’m going to be blunt just for the sake of trying to give you honest advice. The fact that he left after you slept together was not a good sign at all. The only times I wouldn’t want to spend the night with someone after sleeping with them is if I had no feelings there. I have only spent the night after sleeping with someone when I was in a relationship with them or saw them as a potential love interest. Don’t put yourself out there too much. Back off and if he really wants something more, he will come to you. I promise 🙂