what do I do?!

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what do I do?!

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    bruck
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    September 14, 2015 at 1:16 am #85361
    what do I do?!

    I am seeing a girl that broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago and she says every time she begins to develop feelings for someone she blocks them out. How can I prevent her from blocking me out? She says she does not want to scare me off because she likes what we have. She doesn’t want to go through another heart break. What do I do??


    bmwilhelm8818
    Participant
    September 14, 2015 at 2:58 am #85368

    What do you define as “seeing” a girl?


    kevin_manning11
    Participant
    September 14, 2015 at 5:04 pm #85416

    Just go with your gut


    bruck
    Participant
    September 15, 2015 at 8:17 am #85396

    We’ve been on a few dates and been talking quite a bit.


    riguy321
    Participant
    September 24, 2015 at 1:08 am #85851

    Give her some space, she will need to figure out things on her own. If she wants you in the end, she will be back


    chloex
    Participant
    September 24, 2015 at 11:02 am #85865

    If you like her, understand thats she’s probably very insecure right now and try and help her. Generally the more you show her how much she means to you the more she’ll trust you.


    thebrooklynshow
    Participant
    September 24, 2015 at 4:20 pm #85881

    You can’t get her to. I was actually going through something similar(I am a girl) my relationships would always end with me breaking someones heart, it gets to you and you wonder whats wrong with you. She has a lot of self reflecting and finding herself to do. Trust me you do not want to be in a relationship with someone who has intimacy issues because essentially thats what she has going on. It’s very draining for both parties. It is great that she is aware of this issue and she does care enough not to want to hurt you. I would say try to be there for her as much as possible. But do not set ultimatums or try to pressure her, she will run!! Most likely she’s a commitment phobe as well as most people who have intimacy issues are. She’s also probably not over her ex yet, give her time but don’t put your life on hold for her. Good luck