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ch1910ParticipantJanuary 28, 2018 at 10:13 pm #163632
I have been on two dates with this guy. He text me almost every day. He also sent me flowers to work. So, yes he is nice. I have no attraction to him besides him being nice and we work in the same field. I live in a very small town and not a lot of guys to date. I didn’t look forward to the two dates we had and I get annoyed and stressed out hoping he will text me because I do not want to text him. I don’t date so my family keep telling me “give him another chance” or “your aunt and uncle hated each other before they fell in love”. He has two other younger brothers who are married and have kids, so I have heard through other people that he REALLY wants to settle down and have a wife and kids. I am 26 and no where near that, I haven’t dated many people and would like to see whats out there, maybe someone I am excited to talk to and have a physical attraction to. What should I do? Should I go on a third date, even though I have been sick to my stomach about having to go on the date?
Mel4everableParticipantJanuary 31, 2018 at 1:31 pm #164032
If the attraction isn’t there, I don’t recommend that you force it 🙂
LolaParticipantFebruary 1, 2018 at 9:47 am #164141
I would go on a third date, to let him know that although you think he is a nice guy, unfortunately you don t feel attracted to him so it wouldn t be fair to keep dating, and you hope he agrees, be nice, but be honest. I think honesty is the best policy always. You should never settle for less if you are not truly happy, you don t feel attraction etc….
vtrandafirParticipantFebruary 2, 2018 at 1:16 am #164315
You shouldn’t try to force a relationship that’s not meant to be.
KMC88ParticipantFebruary 8, 2018 at 11:22 am #164986
If you feel nothing then end it and let him move on
kaitlynlily6ParticipantFebruary 8, 2018 at 4:31 pm #165045
Appreciate his kind gestures but be upfront. Tell him honestly how you feel and end it immediately. Go out and meet other people, don’t force yourself into something you’re not happy about.
pakster123ParticipantFebruary 11, 2018 at 7:16 am #165240
Don’t go on the third date. He may either interpret it as you wanting to date him or he might use it as a chance to get you back say you even meet up with him just to say you’re not interested. Better to do it on the phone and block him. Call me cruel, but I’ve learned if you don’t act cold about it, guys will try to take advantage or blame you for leading them on later.
beccajmParticipantFebruary 11, 2018 at 11:08 pm #165252
He’s just not as into you as you are into him
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