What do you men think? I tend to over-think. Need your thoughts

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What do you men think? I tend to over-think. Need your thoughts

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    RaeRae87
    RaeRae87
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    December 25, 2014 at 11:49 pm #69619
    What do you men think? I tend to over-think. Need your thoughts

    Took a tin of cookies to my crush & his staff. When greeting, I got a side hug. Gave his treats & card. 1st thing noticed was that I had more variety to this year’s tin. After chatting some, he showed my bro & me upstairs. He has a workshop in half & the other half is empty. He’s thinking about making it an entertainment room.
    When leaving, he was crouched down by the front door (by a newborn). He said bye to my bro & shook his hand. Was getting ready to get a hand shake. He surprised me with patting my arm & said good bye. I ended up looking into his eyes. Not sure in whether my pupils dilated or not. Kind of shocked that I did look into his eyes. I don’t do that often when we are talking.
    Hate reading into things. When I have gotten pats, it has been 2 pats.
    Today’s text “Merry Christmas my friend! Hope that u have a great one w/ your family & friends.” “Thank you! – thank you for the treats, & encouragement the past year – I hope u & ur crew are having a great Christmas too!”

    RaeRae87
    RaeRae87
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    December 29, 2014 at 12:00 am #69688

    If you were the one doing this, would you be thinking of me as a friend or what?


    Nothingreally
    Participant
    December 29, 2014 at 3:37 am #69693

    I dare say he thinks of you as a friend.
    Is he shy?

    RaeRae87
    RaeRae87
    Participant
    December 29, 2014 at 4:37 am #69697

    I am not totally sure.

    RaeRae87
    RaeRae87
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    December 29, 2014 at 5:09 am #69698

    I will say that I am a shy person. It does not help that I also have social anxiety.

    I have also been interacting with him more within the last 16-18 months. I would like to at least be good friends. I really don’t have many, and about none in the area I am living at now (having to do with the combo of social anxiety and shyness)…