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    Kayla
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    September 16, 2015 at 11:19 am #85494
    what do you think of this situation

    I went on a date with my friend’s brother about 3 weeks ago. He kept texting me after for about 10 days but never planned another date. I told him that if he wasnt interested anymore he should tell me because i can’t just keep texting him. He said that he was busy and that he was still into me.
    Then i asked him out he said yes and then cancelled me. At that point i just assumed that he wasnt into me.
    A week later i saw him at his sisters birthday but we didn’t really talk . he just seemed shy and told that we should see each other more. Nevertheless i was talking with my other friends and dancing
    And then i noticed that he left
    His sister stayed over at my place and told me that he got really upset with me because of one particular friend who i was joking with and dancing with and also that he was going thorough an emotional crisis because he broke up 2 months ago with his ex that he dated 6 years….
    I texted him and now he barely answers me and sounds upset


    Kayla
    Participant
    September 16, 2015 at 11:21 am #85495

    Should i just back off? I don’t think he is into me


    Kayla
    Participant
    September 16, 2015 at 11:23 am #85496

    Also he flaked on me twice. And hus sister keeps telling me that he likes me but then i don’t understand why he wouldn’t contact me anymore or try to see me then


    Tom
    Participant
    September 18, 2015 at 7:16 pm #85602

    I think that he’s shying away from commitment because he might be subconsciously having trouble going into a relationship because he doesn’t want to be hurt again. Just try slowing down.


    Tom
    Participant
    September 18, 2015 at 7:17 pm #85603

    OR he’s embarrassed being with u :/ .


    Tom
    Participant
    September 18, 2015 at 7:25 pm #85604

    Well, another thing to consider is that you are his rebound.


    thelittleredpoodle
    Participant
    October 9, 2015 at 4:04 pm #86751

    Perhaps the best thing I can think of is to talk to him in person. In my opinion, it’s better to ask and be direct rather than torture yourself trying to figure what’s going in his head.