What does he mean?

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What does he mean?

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    jojo1991
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    November 17, 2015 at 2:10 pm #88612
    What does he mean?

    I like this guy for two months now and we’ve been friends through a society in college. We get on really well, we talk, we have banter and we also argue but its never anything too serious. I have strong feelings for him and I know he has my back and he has fought my corner in the past. He told me he likes me as a person but also two balls we went to together he has told me I look lovely. Then he would talk to me for an hour as quick as ignore me or talk to me very formally as if he doesnt know me. I dont know if we are good mates or if there is more to it. Guys really confuse me!


    itsmyturn
    Participant
    November 23, 2015 at 6:36 pm #88900

    He is really giving you mixed signals.
    My first thought is great friends – may have some feelings for you but not sure if how into he is.
    Since, at the very least, you are friends, why not ask him out for coffee and see how things go?
    Guys never stop confusing us!


    FrenziedStarFish
    Participant
    November 26, 2015 at 4:00 pm #89023

    have you ever tried to sit down and have a deep conversation w/ him, get his feelings about you/your relationship and see where that goes? maybe he’s confused as to how you really feel about him, etc. How many months/years have you known him?


    theMinionLad
    Participant
    November 26, 2015 at 4:24 pm #89025

    You know, in my opinion you should really open it up to him. Maybe that will work.


    nicegirl
    Participant
    November 27, 2015 at 12:04 am #89033

    I do think that if you two could sit down and talk about it then you will get all your answers.


    Anonymous
    November 27, 2015 at 7:01 pm #89060

    “I have strong feelings for him and I know he has my back and he has fought my corner in the past.”

    Why do we have strong feelings for someone with whom we have not spent any quality time; shared personal history; been out on a date.”
    What you have is a “crush” or a bit of “lust” for someone you find attracting. But, “The First Three Months Of A Relationship Don’t Count.” If it is ok to post, read the article at drsheilaherenow.net.