WHAT DOES SHE MEANT BY THIS??

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WHAT DOES SHE MEANT BY THIS??

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    ganthari12
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    December 11, 2017 at 4:52 am #159641
    WHAT DOES SHE MEANT BY THIS??

    So I just went for a date and she agrees to go on a second date with me but she told me “I would love to go on another date with you but I just want to tell you that I’m not looking for anything right now”. We already set time and date for our second date, so I know for that we will in fact have a second date for sure, so why would she say that and agree to go on a second date with me at the same time?


    jmdsn
    Participant
    December 11, 2017 at 11:58 am #159683

    Maybe she just doesn’t want to commit yet.. Or she’s still testing you or simply isn’t looking for anything serious.

    Me personally i don’t think she knows what she wants, i’d advise you to make her want you, be confident and make her laugh and use the same mentality as her to not commit. Only future will tell if you 2 work out 🙂

    Good luck


    jake.gardener
    Participant
    December 11, 2017 at 12:44 pm #159667

    Hmmm I think the best thing to do would be to play it casual and mirror her a little bit on the second/third dates – she’ll start seeing that you’re a great guy and she’d be losing out OR as she said she just isn’t looking for anything serious so you could be up front with her and tell her what you think of her and that you’d like to go out. But i wouldn’t say that until after a few more dates as it might scare her away.

    She clearly likes you if she wants to go on a second date – it might be the fact that she’s happy the way she is living her life but if something great comes along ( you) then she could change her mind. Good luck 🙂