What is going on?!?!


What is going on?!?!

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    February 4, 2017 at 5:36 pm #125728
    What is going on?!?!

    I have known this man for over two years. Very shortly after I met him, we started sleeping together. He would come to my house several times a week for hours and sometimes spent the night. We’d watch movies, eat together, talk and hang out, sometimes there wasn’t sex, it was just us enjoying each other’s company. We texted each other all the time and he was always complimenting me and saying really nice things. It was like we were dating, but neither one of us really wanted to be in an actual relationship. We were just enjoying the casualness of our friendship/relationship. That lasted for five months. Then he totally changed on me with no warning and wouldn’t tell me why. We still talked and hung out, but not like before. The sex and complimenting stopped. Then a year and a half later, he started sleeping with me again…7 times now in the last three months. But only the sex came back, nothing else. Why would a guy stop and then start up again like that? It’s confusing.

    February 5, 2017 at 6:19 pm #125758

    maybe he met someone who he had a relationship with…end then it ended?

    February 6, 2017 at 1:53 am #125765

    Do you think he might be using you as without serious commitment?

    February 6, 2017 at 1:19 pm #125828

    He wanted sex and you were easy to get it from. If you want a real relationship,be friends first, make him prove himself!! You were filler material,when he had the time and he felt like it, you were nice,easy and available for whatever HE wanted….you have to have some standards and make a guy live up to them. Make him work!!

    • This reply was modified 1 year, 3 months ago by Sue315 Sue315.
    February 7, 2017 at 12:41 pm #125973

    i agree with the notion he met somebody he wanted to be with.. was with them. it didn’t work out or he’s frustrated or unhappy with that relatoinshpi or person.. and is now coming back to you to fulfill needs.

    yes.. he’s using you at this point.

    sorry to say 🙁