What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

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What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

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    C. Price
    C. Price
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    October 24, 2012 at 3:00 pm #15493
    What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    Did she like the flowers? Maybe the foot massage in public was too much. I’m sure between all of us we can figure out what she really wants, here.

    Taylor55
    Taylor55
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    October 24, 2012 at 4:41 pm #15778

    this is a good ide a


    JimmyK
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    October 24, 2012 at 4:56 pm #15513

    I left my beautiful girlfriend a giftcard to her favorite store. I left it as a surprise on her office desk. It was just before our 2 year anniversary, I waned her to think that was all I was going to give her but I made it like a small build up of things to the happy ending 😉

    YouGuessedIt
    YouGuessedIt
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    October 24, 2012 at 4:58 pm #15514

    You sound like a true gentleman, ma friend. well done

    robb432
    robb432
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    October 24, 2012 at 5:00 pm #15773

    That’s a sweet move. I live in Florida; I always thought it would be a nice date to wake up on the east coast and watch the sun rise, then drive across the state and watch the sun set on the west coast.

    Caroline
    Caroline
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    November 13, 2012 at 3:22 pm #15904

    I’d like flowers. They sound overrated, but, actually there probably the sweetest thing a guy could do

    YouGuessedIt
    YouGuessedIt
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    November 13, 2012 at 3:23 pm #15906

    Every time i give a girl flowers she really seems to like it…but idk tho…if it was me i’d rather be taken out for dinner. Free food!

    JoeVL
    JoeVL
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    November 20, 2012 at 10:18 am #16744

    YouGuessedIt wrote:Every time i give a girl flowers she really seems to like it…but idk tho…if it was me i’d rather be taken out for dinner. Free food!

    I don’t think this is about what a GUY wants. Plus, girls DO like the traditional dates, they don’t always need us to get too creative. We’re taking them out of their normal routines


    JimmyK
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    November 21, 2012 at 12:10 pm #16977

    Caroline wrote:I’d like flowers. They sound overrated, but, actually there probably the sweetest thing a guy could do

    Can’t go wrong with flowers. I don’t know a single girl who has rejected roses from me.

    knock knock
    knock knock
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    November 21, 2012 at 12:23 pm #16989
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    I’ve had some success taking a lad friend to local music shows. I live in a bigger city so it’s easier to find venues both of us could enjoy.

    hundtington
    hundtington
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    November 21, 2012 at 12:29 pm #17000
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    A girl can just TELL us what she wants and we can get it for her. no need for surprises. If she wants a surprise I’ll wrap a gift in a newspaper for her to open up.

    Jason
    Jason
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    November 22, 2012 at 1:19 pm #17120
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    I admit that I struggle with “What She Wants” a lot. By nature, I’m a straight forward type of guy, I don’t intent to be but that is the way that it is. Luckily I have a wonderful wife that knows this. Christmas gifts are given to me on a list. I do however send her a little something to work about once a year, might be flowers or dipped strawberries.

    I just do not pick up on hints…

    Jason
    Jason
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    November 25, 2012 at 9:44 pm #17191
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    That’s a sweet move. I live in Florida; I always thought it would be a nice date to wake up on the east coast and watch the sun rise, then drive across the state and watch the sun set on the west coast.

    That is a great idea. Maybe schedule a nice late lunch in between? If you keep thinking like this, I’m sure you will have a long and happy relationship!


    spoodle
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    November 28, 2012 at 3:15 pm #17452
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    Jason I’m sure if you’ll agree with me but when it comes to “hints” it’s best the lady just tells us straight forward, huh?

    I don’t mind getting the gift, I just want to make sure it’s one she’ll like so I’d rather try to get it right the first time I buy it. When it comes to surprises, I go the universal route with little food items, flowers, a trip to the movies or a new restaurant for dinner. Get reservations or tickets in advance, show I tried a little harder haha.

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 11 months ago by  spoodle.
    RealAttraction
    RealAttraction
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    December 4, 2012 at 1:01 am #18037
    Reply To: What She Wants- Don’t Make Her Spell It Out

    Simple: a woman wants what she cannot have

    be a challenge have confidence and self control and you will soon be the “man” she wants

    ~ RealAttraction
    “Here to help men understand the psychology of women”

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