what should i do??

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what should i do??

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    jav316
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    January 12, 2016 at 8:33 pm #91464
    what should i do??

    I been dating this great guy for 3 months and he has been complete gentlemen, respectful, takes me places I never been and we always have fun. We been together every weekend and our sons met .which he,said he never let’s anyone meet his son. They became friends. Anyway we never established what we were but he said he wants to talk when he feared I was backing away ..and I assumed he was talking to other girls because of posts I saw on facebook . i fought with him for first time over this girl and was acting childish online and accusing him of lieing when he said he never met her.l told him to call me when he wants a relationship . then I posted stupid things ..long story short he commented how girls he dated acts 12 in a 30 body and cant take it. Then the next day I noticed he deleted me off Facebook! I send him few messages asking what’s going on and apoligizing and nothing !!! What do I do? I have concert tickets we are supposed to go to And his sons birthday ! Is he really done?


    Anonymous
    January 14, 2016 at 4:22 am #91605

    Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.


    tipatip
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    January 14, 2016 at 9:18 am #91600

    Hi There!

    Sometimes when we hold on too tight to people they slip away. It’s just a sad reality and facing this type of rejection really hurts especially when we feel as if we have given the best of ourselves to someone. Judging by your tone, I sense that you regret your actions on social media. Not judging, but sometimes we act out of hurt. I know the situation seems hopeless now and you may feel as if you have lost the best thing that ever happened to you. Sometimes people exit from our lives for a good reason. You have a great opportunity to learn from this. Learn to openly communicate with a new interest what you are looking for in a relationship early. My advice is to find closure in this relationship but give it a lot of time to cool off first. If he wants to talk again be prepared to apologize and be receptive to his apology too. You may have to also be prepared to let him go and move on. Take time to reflect inwardly on your wants and needs. Wishing you all the best!