what should I do? My bf is being sketchy

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what should I do? My bf is being sketchy

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    CourtneyAlyson
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    January 25, 2014 at 1:35 pm #46544
    what should I do? My bf is being sketchy

    Well a few months ago I caught my boyfriend of 16 months send a “<3” to another girl that he hangs out with at work (she’s not cute) which wouldn’t bother me so much but I know him, he wouldnt do that ever unless he is flirting…also never sends me them. So I calmly asked him not to send her hearts. He made up some big excuse and I obviously didn’t believe him and he then blew up on me pretty much called me a hoe and I got out of the car and the speed off (he never ever does that) well we got over that he doesnt really text her anymore at least that I know of.

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    CourtneyAlyson
    Participant
    January 25, 2014 at 1:39 pm #46545

    Then this happened this week…
    I saw him messaging a girl he hooked up with before and who still likes him. We were lying on his bed and he looked at his phone and the messages were up (I didn’t see what it said) he then quickly closed the phone while making a bunch of “oh oh” nervous noises. So that got me suspicious. So yes I feel.bad but I looked at his fb. He was the one who messaged her, one night he took me home because he was “tired” but he went home and messaged her “hey :)” but she didn’t reply so he then went to sleep. Then next day he asked if she was asleep and that’s why she didn’t respond. And also in the messages he told to work at this one place because they hire attractive girls. But the whole messages was just him starting conversations with her and only messaging her when I wasn’t around. If she actually was flirting back to him too, idk what would have happend. Now the messages are deleted so I feel like obviously he knows what he did was wrong.

    What should I do?


    skyguy
    Participant
    January 27, 2014 at 3:26 pm #46651

    #1 don’t click that link in the above message. MOre than likely a virus.

    #2 Drop him and move on. I’m a guy. He’s being sketchy. He’s either got something on the back burner or trying to put someone there. He should have no problem with you seeing what’s going in his phone at this point in your relationship (with some reasonable exceptions).